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I was in a 2 year love affair that just ended and I am really blown away! Even thou I was cheating I felt really attached & in love with this person who claimed to be in love with me & it seemed like they did until I found out this person was also playing me and got back with their ex that they said they didn't feel anything for. It ripped my heart out of my chest because I trusted this person with my heart and got really hurt in the end. We both at one time was so passionate about one another and would always break up, but always got back together. The sex was awesome too. I just don't understand why this person lied to me and totally disregarded how I felt. You must think why should I complain when I am already married! Well it Hurts!

#73 — Comments (3) — 12/7/2009 at 11:02 PM — Relationships — Juicy Blab! (3) — No one cares (0)

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yes, u shouldnt complain bc ur married. but although ur married everyone has their reasons and it may hurt..but u have to find a way to let it go..theres a reason y it didnt work out. mayb its for the best for u. so if i were u i'd focus on makin ur marriage as passionate as u were about the other female. thers a reason y ur still married. bc u obviously care bout ur wife. so use this as a way to build ur relationship with ur wife and mayb tell her..in the end u might find that ur wife is more than ur side was and you could recreate that spark and if not. thas y we invented divorce. some ppl aint meant to b married. and if kids are involved its prolly jus best u end it instead of the kid seeing the downs in ur relationship. u have a right to be happy and so does ur wife. no sense stayin some where wen u hav to fake it. eventually u'll b sellin somethin no ones buying.
<3 hope it works out.
12/8/09
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okay i have a little perspective test for you... okay ready.. put your spouse in your shoes... you've basically been doing the same thing to them that you just got done to you... how does it feel?? not so good does it. Besides you were having an affair.. a relationship that is based on sex alone. you made the mistake to grow feelings for that person. You should have known that othing more was going to come of that relationship. Because there are standards and once those standards are met there is nomore use for yu. So should you complain... I dont think so. because you knew the consequences going into it. I hope i was of some help....

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12/31/09
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